I am a pretty girl who is into a relationship with this extremely gorgeous and hot guy.  But my guy is a business person and is always busy.  As a girl, I tend to get hurt by unreturned phone calls and I sometimes get mushy when my guy does not show a deep and constant affection.  Then I met one guy from my old online dating account which I inadvertently failed to discontinue.  He was so warm, nice and affectionate and I suddenly liked him.  I replied his email and occasionally chatted with him until I realized I was flinging with him already.  On few occasions we met up for dinner and had some cozy time together in his apartment.  He was really nice and now I am kind of disturbed because I love my boyfriend so much.  Maybe I will just continue flinging because I love the experience until such I am married.

Rose, 25, NSW