“I had met tons of single girls when I was younger, I had many lovers and now I am older I have found the internet is one of the best ways to meet singles. I don’t spend much time with any one lover, I like variety and I like to play the field. I split my online time between the community and adult dating sites and I get the best results this way. Its not for everyone but it works for me.”

Barry T. 33 Melbourne (Berwick) Victoria – single guy

“I had this idea of getting involved with an orgy or group sex party. The only issue I had was finding one and then getting an invite. I am a guy who stands 185cm and I am way above average looks according to my girlfriend who also by the way wanted to get involved in the fun and games. In fact if I recall she had the idea first, anyway I finally located a group of people online who ran regular sex parties. We went along and our very first orgy will stay with me forever.”

“I had always wanted a threesome with 2 girls and myself, who doesn’t right? I decied to try and adult dating site to see what was on offer and sure enough that sort of stuff goes on and quite often it seems. I had been living in a different world and through a couple of adult dating websites my whole outlook has changed forever. People open up on these sites, men and women. They specify their needs and fantasies and other desires, all you have to do is look around to see who matches your taste and then make contact. I was able to live out my threesome fantasy within a couple of weeks of joining my first site. So glad I did.”

Phillip 24 Brisbane QLD

“When you have to have it you have to have it right? I needed sex and I was at the end of my rope, any longer than about a week and I am starting to get very uptight. One thing I always go back to is the net, if my black book is looking a little on the boring side I can always hit the web to make a few new friends. It’s all very easy and no bullshit, you place a profile the guys respond and you work through them until you find one or 5 that you are attracted too. I don’t have any time in my life to mess around and play the dating game, I am a straight shooter and the internet sites enable me to put this out there. No guessing games, I need a casual sex partner not a puppy to follow me around. Don’t send me flowers just bring nice wine and lets get busy. Life’s like that for me.”

Kel – 31 Perth  WA

“I had spent so much time with my family I felt I needed a break and some male company. It’s hard to get out and meet men when your a single mum and many of them make a run for it when they find out you have kids. I put a profile on a couple of dating websites and waited to see if I would get any guys interested. I’m a pretty good looking gal and I did’nt have to wait long before the responses started rolling in. Lots of guys in my area were registered on the site so I hooked up with a few of them on the webcam chat to see how it would work. It was pretty good fun and I managed to “out” a couple of dick heads and meet a couple of nice guys. Eventually after quite a bit of virtual foreplay I met up with a couple of nice guys and one thing led to another i got some much needed sex in my life. So now I am a regular on a couple of sites and I have a few online friends that I hook up with from time to time. As a single mum it suits my lifestyle perfectly and I can always shut it down if I’m not in the mood.”

Janet 23 – Melbourne (Doncaster) Victoria

“Better than any other way I know I use the internet to pickup hot women, it’s fast, it’s fun and very effective. Once you work out the kinks and tricks you can keep your self very busy meeting women. The trick is standing out in the crowd and not being pushy, guys need to keep in mind there are rules on the net just as in real life. Women in the main part will want as much information as they can get, they need to sift through idiots to find the gems. To win online you need to set yourself up as a gem not a wanker. It’s not hard and most of it comes down to not being a jerk and using good information and nice photo. Only contact women who fit your profile and don’t go after the ones outside of your age bracket. Be prepared to use a webcam and the chat rooms. – Best of luck.”

Jackie 33 Brisbane QLD 

“I never even thought about swapping my wife until I stumbled over a swingers website on the internet. Our love life was stale and we needed a spark, my wife is open minded and we had been married for just on 7 years so the itch was setting in. It was not hard to talk her into it and I will admit I had my own reservations about sharing my lovely wife. In practice the whole process was easy and not sleazy, we met a nice couple our own age and did the swap. it turned out to be a lot of fun and we are now keen to make a regular event of swinging. It’s had the added benefit of making our love life much better when we are on own. 5 stars for swinging.”

Jonathan & Rhonda – Bendigo Victoria

“I was single she was married, I was so turned on by her photo and when she agreed to meet me I just about blew a gasket. She is ok with seeing other men as her husband has agreed to an “open relationship” this is fine with me. It was the most erotic encounter I have ever had. Married women are the best fun your ever going to have, it’s propbably better when the husband is not ok with it just to add to the excitment. She is going to meet with me at least one more time but their rules as a couple say they can only have short term flings on the side. Again this is ok with me as I will get bored with the affiar myslef. My plan is to get back onto the dating site to see how quickly I can find another married women to have an affair with.”

Stuart 32 – Melbourne Vic

“We are old hands at swinging, we visit the clubs and use several matchmaking sites to meet new couples with similar interests as our own. My wife is a hot 32 year old career women and I practice law. We are a clean “high class” couple I guess you might say. We are fussy with who we get together with and have strict rules about chemistry and keep each other happy and comfortable with each swap. We do a mixture of same room and closed door type swinging, depending on the couples we meet. My wife is a little on the bi – sexual side of the fence so we tend to do more of the same room stuff as she likes to watch and touch when she can. She is fussy about her girls and we have very similar taste in women. It’s a pretty cool relationship when you can have a perve with your wife. We have cursed with hgh sex drives and have become very comfortable with the whole scene.”  (the photo is one my wife likes, it is not her but she is just as hot)

Adrian & Lisa 38 & 32 Sydney NSW